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MCDesigns said:
I would hope so, or he might be looking for a divorce, LOL
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I've been trapped in a 30-yr-long sexless marriage because my wife has been permanently disabled and bedridden for the last 25 of them. I've wanted out for over a decade now, but she can't go anywhere (she isn't ambulatory), and I love her too much to stack any mental anguish on top of the physical pain she's been dealing with for most of our marriage.

Everything was hunky dory during our first five years, and then life said, "Let's see how you deal with this," and fucked us. If I had known I wasn't going to be able to have sex for the rest of my life, I would've lost my virginity to the one woman I dated who kept trying to get me into bed, and stayed single.

So, you could say I'm using AI to express the kind of marriage I wish I had. :P
 
Nyghtfall3D said:
I've been trapped in a 30-yr-long sexless marriage because my wife has been permanently disabled and bedridden for the last 25 of them. I've wanted out for over a decade now, but she can't go anywhere (she isn't ambulatory), and I love her too much to stack any mental anguish on top of the physical pain she's been dealing with for most of our marriage.

Everything was hunky dory during our first five years, and then life said, "Let's see how you deal with this," and fucked us. If I had known I wasn't going to be able to have sex for the rest of my life, I would've lost my virginity to the one woman I dated who kept trying to get me into bed, and stayed single.

So, you could say I'm using AI to express the kind of marriage I wish I had. :P
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Yeah, in retrospect, knowing about your situation already, probably shouldn't have posted that, BUT for me thre is a huge difference between not being able to and not wanting to. Huge respect from me though for sticking by her side. I came close to a similar situation years ago.
 
MCDesigns said:
Yeah, in retrospect, knowing about your situation already, probably shouldn't have posted that
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All good. No offense taken.

I would also like to add, every time I read about another celebrity couple split, my first instinctive thought is, "Lucky sons of bitches..."

MCDesigns said:
BUT for me thre is a huge difference between not being able to and not wanting to.
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Good point.

I once saw an interview with the couple from that old TLC series, "18 and Counting", back in the day. The host asked Michelle if she had any advice for women for maintaining a healthy sexual relationship in their marriage. She said, "Just be (joyfully) available... when you're tired and just want to collapse on the bed after a long day, don't forget about him.... because you and he are the only ones who can have that time together. No one else in the world can meet that need."

MCDesigns said:
Huge respect from me though for sticking by her side.
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I think i know where your coming from, on one hand i feel sorry for your wife, but also i feel for you, i have been thinking of old girlfriends i had, how i treated them, and of course how they used me, well most?
I always wanted the most beautiful girl in the world, some we good looking, some average, some plain, but i was always looking, then i dumped the girl that treated me good, but i dumbed her, years later i met her again, and she had a daughter, about 12/13 yr, the first thing i thought , wow she could have been mine! Years later, due to my work load, i was working seven days a week for up to twelve hours a day, never had time to, well done anything, then i retired last year, and now alone, well i hope i get some reward if i go to Heaven.
As you do with you AI, i am in the same boat and do with mine, any way they say if you do it each day, its good for the prostrate :)
 
Badwolf666 said:
As you do with you AI, i am in the same boat and do with mine, any way they say if you do it each day, its good for the prostrate
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Welp, I do genuinely still love and care for my wife, but when you say your vows, and you say the "sickness and health" part, you think "sickness" won't involve much more than helping each other through things like seasonal colds, or the occasional flu. You don't imagine what we've been going through.

I never wanted to be someone's caregiver, and, by extension, I don't want to be married to the version of my wife who's been bedridden for the last 25 years. I want the healthy, mobile, strong, aspirational version of her that I married in '94.

Those first five years were absolute bliss. We were happy, excited, sexually active, she was studying to be a Psychologist, and we were building a life together. Then, it all went to shit, and we've both been miserable in our own ways ever since.

Every day I wish God would either give me back the healthy, beautiful, strong woman I married, or finally put her out of her fucking misery and bring her the fuck home to Him. Or, if this is all one big test of our stamina as a couple, then at the very least, I wish he would hurry the fuck up and tell us how we've scored.

On the plus side, the woman I dated in High School who wanted to bed me dumped me the day after Prom. A couple years after we graduated, I saw her in the grocery store with her 9-month-old. So, I guess in that respect, I got real lucky, because I never wanted kids, either.
 
Interesting takes on relationships. I have been engaged 3 times and married once. First time engaged, we lived together, she was amazing, but my band at the time was really taking off and she had the 9 to 5 gig. I just felt like we were living different lives, so we discussed it amicably and I moved out. We are still close even after all this time and talk every so often. Second engagement, a club bartender, amazing sex, but being with me and in my world of stardom opened up a lot of doors for her and she got an offer to move to L.A. for modeling and you know the saying, if you love something set it free, blah, blah, blah. She never came back, LOL. 3rd engagement, a trainer for Hooters, LOL She ended up cheating on me, LOL

Got married because my music career was at an end because of the music scene and getting older, so I decided it was time to settle down and a year later met a really hot blond at a club and we started dating and fell in love. Unfortunately she had a lot of baggage that came out after we got married and even though I tried, it was just too much to deal with and neither one of us was happy. I have had 4 relationships since then, not counting my current one, and none came close to being married again. I doubt I will ever get remarried, but you never know. I am too set in my ways now and enjoy my free time.
 
When i was working and listened to every one else go on about their other half's and the life they had, you know the nagging, the fights, etc, i joked one day, and said it might be better if we had single lives and just get together once a year to breed, funny thing i was expecting a backlash, but most of them agreed with me, but never got a round to who brings up the kids if we have any afterwards such breeding session
 
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